In the third chunk of The Same River Twice, there were some parts I really enjoyed and some parts that I felt were wordy and unnecessary. I realize this is a memoir about a writer, but I feel as if some of the story gets lost in the over-detailing of minuscule events. Because of the detail and descriptions of some parts of the book, I have started to wonder if the author has over exaggerated any points throughout the story. I can understand that it would be easy to exaggerate the past to make it sound more enjoyable. This book has really built up my anticipation though, as I am waiting very patiently for the arrival of their child. I get really excited when I get to one of the parts about the present day, hoping that in that chapter Rita will finally give birth. The fact that I have so much anticipation has really kept my interest and allowed me to want to read a little bit more, despite my previously state disgust for the over-detailing.
I also enjoyed the chapter outlining Dane’s wedding. I was wondering all along how his family felt about his nomadic nature and it was interesting to see the family dynamic when he returned for the wedding. I liked the quote where the author says “For all my wayward ways, I was still the favored son and Dane was relegated to piloting the Nina, running aground on his own efforts to please the family.” This quote shows Dane’s struggle with middle child syndrome. This is not something I know well being the oldest, but I can see my sister feeling the exact same way. It is interesting to see how Dane struggles with this around his own wedding day, a time that is supposed to be his. I also liked the quote describing Ellen’s family. “The family of the bride was polite and charming, although their Southern Baptist beliefs opposed them to coffee, cigarettes, alcohol, dancing, and me.” I am from up north and the Southern Baptist religion was one of the many culture shocks I felt when coming to Clemson.